last night was a blog-walking night for me..and there were so much i found very helpful indeed..and i think..i will be doing so every now and then..because it make me think and rethink..and relief~
here's few things that i think should be repost on my blog..just for my own reference when i need it~
first: Girls need to realize this -
Written by a guy
We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys. But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.
We don’t care if a guy calls or texts you. But at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2am.
Also, when we tell you you’re pretty / beautiful/ gorgeous / cute / stunning, we freaking mean it. Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.
Let us pay for you! don’t feel bad. We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say “thank you” .
Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.
You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. Or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don’t take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily.
Yeah, you can quote me.
Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.
Let us pay for you! don’t feel bad. We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say “thank you” .
Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.
You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. Or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don’t take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.
Whatever happened to the word “handsome”/”beautiful”, I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with “Hey handsome!” instead of “Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy”or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand im not sayin’ i woulndnt like it ether ;)
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population & find someone who will treat you with utter respect .
Whatever happened to the word “handsome”/”beautiful”, I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with “Hey handsome!” instead of “Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy”or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand im not sayin’ i woulndnt like it ether ;)
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population & find someone who will treat you with utter respect .
Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest .
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes .
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel .
Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes ….and say ‘i love you’ ..and actually mean it.
Give the nice guys a chance.
Guys repost this if you agree.
Girls repost this if you think it’s cute.
Every Guy who isn’t a jerk will agree with this,
so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this.
ps: thanks for saying those sweets words..whoever wrote this..this would definitely be an eye-opener for every girls~
2nd: for guys~
my words: i still cant understand why u keep on doing this things to me..i hate it when it happened..and it always happens..i hope u can tell me what i did that make u do this to me quite so frequently if u remember..because i do remember well..each time this happened..i will be torn but when u came back..i will recover..but please..i do need some explanations..please n do please tell me..so that i would understand..even if it will hurt me..but at least i will try to understand..i read ur blog..and as always..no hint..just that u are perfectly happy without me..making me feel more miserable..making me feel that i am the one having problems here..having to live the life without u..
if my words the other day what making u do this to me..i am sorry..it was never true..i'm just saying it to see how u would react..but i see that ur reaction kinda show that u might just dont care..again i am sorry..
call me stupid call me low..but this is what i call LOVE~
tell me so that i can understand..please please please..even if this is the end of us~
peace n out with sorrow~
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